Definitely. The images we see on television, in magazines and in the movies send messages about what�s beautiful and what makes someone successful. People often imitate those images, changing their clothes, their hair cut, their style, to be more like what they see in the media.

Problem is, what�s shown on TV, in magazines, and in the movies doesn�t usually represent reality. The media likes showing women who are really tall, really thin, usually light-skinned, with big breasts. But, this kind of body type is nearly impossible to get without some kind of surgery. It�s not natural.

Guys also get media messages. They�re supposed to be tall, thin, muscular, with perfect skin and teeth.

When we can�t live up to these impossible images, we feel inferior or less successful. Our best defense is knowing that the media uses tricks to make people look better than they really do. Most of the pictures we see are distortions � if not outright lies.

Here are some tips for viewing the media with a smarter, more critical eye. (They come courtesy of the Peel Health Web site
http://www.region.peel.on.ca/health/commhlth/bodyimg/media.htm).

• The media uses props, lighting and computer technology to make actors� and models� bodies look like the so-called �perfect image.�
• People�s shapes and sizes are often changed in the pages of magazines.
• So-called �imperfections� � acne, freckles, lines, wrinkles, skin folds and other unwanted features are air brushed out.
• Splicing together body parts from several different photographs can create the media�s �perfect image.� So, what we often see in a magazine ad is a lie.

People come in all different shapes and sizes. We are tall and short, thinner and heavier, lighter and darker. We have straight and curly hair. We have thin penises and thicker penises, small breasts and large breasts, lots of body hair, and very little body hair.

Everyone is different. And it�s not just normal, but also wonderful, to be different.

There is a ton of information available about the media and body image. We�ve listed some Web sites in the resources section, so check it out. Get media savvy. Don�t let the media tell you how you should look or feel about your body.