This is a big worry for many. Some people are really turned off by the idea of allowing a partner to ejaculate, or cum, in their mouths. And they don�t like the idea of swallowing a guy�s semen. Others like the taste and smell of semen and like giving this pleasure to their partner.

There are two basic considerations. Whenever semen enters the body, whether through the mouth or another opening, there�s a good chance of catching a sexually transmitted infection, if your partner has one. And it�s tough to tell whether a person has a disease. Sometimes, people have infections and don�t even know it. So, that�s a real risk.

The other big factor is whether you feel comfortable. Many guys like it when they can cum in their partner�s mouth. But, you should never feel pressured to do this. Only do it if you feel comfortable and safe. If you don�t, then use a condom (which is a good idea anyway, since it protects against sexually transmitted infections). Another option is to tell you partner to signal when they�re going to cum so you can move your mouth away.