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My Struggle With Abstinence
By Branden Teets

Should I have sex?

That�s the question on many teenagers� minds in this day and age, including mine. I wonder if I should have sex, and when the right time would be. Right now, I don�t engage in sexual intercourse mainly because of my religious beliefs, morals, and fear of pregnancy and regret. I want to wait until I�m married, and abstain from the possibility of pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease (STD).

Some people think abstinence means you abstain from all sexual activity. I, myself, and many others, believe you only have to abstain from sexual intercourse. 

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Do you plan on being abstinent until marriage?
 
Absolutely. I won't have any sexual activity until I'm married.
Yes. But I abstain from intercourse only, and do other things.
Maybe. If I met someone I really loved, I might not wait.
No way! I think it's OK to have intercourse before marriage.

  Issues of safe sex, contraception, and STDs can be drummed into our heads when we�re still pre-pubescent -- as long as they�re heterosexual issues.   
-- Bennu, 17
Dover, Delaware
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